There are many things I’ll never forget but there are some that may fade. As it would turn out I’m getting older and my sense of age isn’t getting older.
The other day i asked out a girl that was really cute and definitely worth asking, but as it turns out she’s only 20. Damn it!!! I finally get the guts to ask out a girl and she’s a freaking decade younger than me.
Live and learn I guess but damn it all the same. I’ll never forget when I realized that I was to old to ask out just any one.
Here is another thing I’ll never forget, much like the smile of that girl.
So I went to an interview today for and apartment with a girl who has a two bedroom townhouse. It’s a small little place, but think it will cool.
There was only one real rule I had apart from the obvious rules about crack addicts and people who put their babies in dumpsters and things like that. The rule was if I thought see was cute than I shouldn’t live there.
Maybe it’s better said that if I though I would want to date this girl than I shouldn’t live there. Well I can’t say I really followed that rule very well. I think I could date this girl if I had a chance to meet her, but now I’m going to be living in the same house so I guess it’s inevitable that I’ll get to know her.
Apart from the little boy crush I might have, she is really cool and I think we’ll get along well. Honestly I’m really happy to be living so close to downtown. I’m excited.
A lot of times I find myself sitting around wondering about what woman I will meet. I’ve always kinda of wanted to have an inside hint on who and when, but more time that goes by I realize that it’s not so much about that one person out there.
I let go of the notion that there is one person out there for me, and started to think that there are many options out there. Many women that could be what I need, many sets of eyes and a voice that I could look at and listen too with ever getting tired of.
I don’t think I could have learned this if I got married when I was young. I don’t think many people know that it’s even possible. How misconceived is our perception of life based on the fact that we get married young.
Now all I wonder is wether or not the woman I marry will be with in 5yrs of me or not.
I asked a girl out today for the first time in a number of years, kinda weird i have to say but cool. I know that sounds lame, but I don’t care.
I haven’t had to ask out a girl in along time. I’ve been either dating or just never really needed to. Although it was kinda cool because she has a great smile and beautiful eyes. Course it could just be my memory making these things up, but I don’t think so.
Anyway, she smiled a lot and kinda stumbled over her words when I asked. Her voice got all small and shy as she muttered, “I’ve got a boyfriend.” It was the cutest thing…
I’ve been noticing more and more that it’s not so much that I really want to have a serious thing with any girls right now, but it’s more that I wouldn’t mind a little interaction.
I just came out of a great relationship because of our live moving in different directions and now I’m left hanging with no interaction. We had great companionship and thats what I miss the most.
Guys just don’t cut it, not to mention their not cute like girls are. Damn that sound pathetic… ha
Sure enough just after I write a post about being single, and how I like to approach women in general, it happens.
Nothing special, nothing of major concern. Honestly nothing more than a hello, but it was cool all the same. I take a lot of stock in a good hello.
I’m looking forward to the second random meeting.
I’ve been noticing again and again my lack of direct interaction with girls. Yeah, I know, weak man….
Seriously though, people always say that women like to be pursued right. Well what if you pursue a woman and then once you get a moment to meet her you realize, “damn this was a huge mistake, this chick is kinda lame”.
Well, you walk away right? Something like that I guess, only make it nice. See the things is I went for some coffee earlier and I saw two girls that were approachable and kinda cute, but I didn’t introduce myself or try and start up a conversation. I’m just not that type, or so I think.
Anyway, if you walk up to a girl and say, “hey” all you do is run the risk of looking and feeling stupid. I’m not so much worried about the initial reaction, but it’s more of the delayed affects that I’m thinking about. I would rather make good eye contact and be little out of reach at first, then find some way to spark a silent interest. It’s all about reaction and eye contact.
If I don’t get the initial reaction that I’m looking for than I’m not interested. It’s a good test in my book, but it seems to attract a certain type of woman than I’m not sure I’m really trying to attract.
In my book it’s all about the second random meeting. That time where I see that same girl and I get that same cute smile from her. That’s the point where I need to say something, but I usually end up scratching my head. Next thing I know I’m covered in dandruff and she’s being distracted by someone else. Then there is that awkwardness where you almost want to wait for the third random meeting. Not a good idea to wait for the third one. Then I just look like a real weirdo.