I’ve been noticing again and again my lack of direct interaction with girls. Yeah, I know, weak man….
Seriously though, people always say that women like to be pursued right. Well what if you pursue a woman and then once you get a moment to meet her you realize, “damn this was a huge mistake, this chick is kinda lame”.
Well, you walk away right? Something like that I guess, only make it nice. See the things is I went for some coffee earlier and I saw two girls that were approachable and kinda cute, but I didn’t introduce myself or try and start up a conversation. I’m just not that type, or so I think.
Anyway, if you walk up to a girl and say, “hey” all you do is run the risk of looking and feeling stupid. I’m not so much worried about the initial reaction, but it’s more of the delayed affects that I’m thinking about. I would rather make good eye contact and be little out of reach at first, then find some way to spark a silent interest. It’s all about reaction and eye contact.
If I don’t get the initial reaction that I’m looking for than I’m not interested. It’s a good test in my book, but it seems to attract a certain type of woman than I’m not sure I’m really trying to attract.
In my book it’s all about the second random meeting. That time where I see that same girl and I get that same cute smile from her. That’s the point where I need to say something, but I usually end up scratching my head. Next thing I know I’m covered in dandruff and she’s being distracted by someone else. Then there is that awkwardness where you almost want to wait for the third random meeting. Not a good idea to wait for the third one. Then I just look like a real weirdo.
